NEWS: Why am I still single?

Let’s face it, online dating can sometimes knock your confidence. Think about it, you start off with being open minded about online dating. Your friends tell you you’re a great catch, so it should be easy to find someone. Right?

Some lucky people find their perfect match immediately, but for the rest of us it takes time. Most people find that searching for nice profiles is easy, but making the right moves and getting replies can be hard. We all like to think we’re confident, but being knocked back or waiting for a reply can add up to a lot of disappointment. That’s why we’ve teamed up with Lovephool to make sure you’re at your confident best.

Ask yourself; do you feel as positive and confident as when you first started on AsianD8?

Could you improve your chances by giving your confidence levels a boost? If you’re still single, then it’s worth checking. Confidence is one of the biggest factors in successful relationships. Making small changes in your behaviour and language can result in huge changes in your confidence and the first impression that you give. It may also help you get better results from the messages you send out and attract the person you’d really like to meet.

If you want to improve your chances of finding love, it’s important to know where your confidence levels are at so that you can get the boost you need. Be honest, do you think you have Low, Average or High Confidence?

 

Low Relationship Confidence – may mean that you’ve not had an easy time in relationships and you’re protecting yourself:  You’re happy to meet someone but don’t want to get hurt again.

Average Relationship Confidence – shows that you’re probably fairly happy in your life but not quite hitting the mark and attracting the right people: You don’t like having to make an effort.

High Relationship Confidence – you’re happy to open yourself up, even if it means getting hurt: You’re really comfortable about putting a lot of effort and energy into finding the perfect match.

 

How will checking my confidence levels help me find love?

Well firstly, it helps you figure out whether you need to change your approach and boost your confidence. If you’re a Fly Lovephool type then you want to make sure you you’re coming across as positive not flaky. If you’re a Hot Lovephool type then it’s good to come across as warm not moody. If you’re Slick Lovephool type then coming across as caring is great, but defensive is bad. Finally for those Cool Lovephool types you’ll want to come across as calm not cold. Confidence is what makes the biggest difference in how you might be coming across.

Once you’ve taken the Relationship Confidence Quiz you’ll get a free Relationship Recipe guide telling exactly how to make the most of your dating chances (you will need to find out what Lovephool type you are first so take the Free Lovephool Quiz and then you’ll be able to find out your confidence level). Make sure you’re logged in before clicking the link!

Try it now for free and make sure you’re on top form to find your dream partner!

Vaisakhi is one of the most important dates in the Sikh calendar. It is the Sikh New Year festival and is celebrated on April 13. The AsianD8 team would like to wish all our Sikh members a very happy Vaisakhi!